Coup de main: Random Observation 1

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Random Observation 1

One of the most common questions you would have heard in your lifetime would be "How Are You?". I am not talking about just any 'how are you' today, it is about this one :

I observed this when one of my friends who lives in US updated her FB status,"Flying to India, with a very heavy heart". I didn't dare to ask her the reason:( specially on a public platform. But i observed a couple of random people(who i know are merely in her friendlist because they happen to be in the same school as hers and are far from being FRIENDS), asking her stupid questions right there like "Hope u r fine.. but what exactly hapened?".Now why would she write " with a very heavy heart" if ALL WAS OK ! I felt really sorry looking at people's mindset :(. It made me check my own timeline recalling what all people say to me and how much they really mean it !

When you are feeling low and update a sad status on FB(Isnt that wot u do too? :D),lots of people would ask,"How are you?What happened?",1/100 people are genuinely concerned for your well being, the rest are only curious !

So here goes my prayer for today,

"Dear Allah, please help me, to be able to differentiate between people who are sincerely my well wishers from those who merely show concern to spice up their own life :P"

Smiles,
Saniya :)

PS : Have you heard a lil uncommon version of the song Raabta ?..Pheli thi siyaah raatein .. must listen :)

1 comment:

Kally said...: True!!!

100s of ppl r ready to comment on a girl's status even when they post a

:( smiley

Well, not stereotyping....its my observation...hope u will also accept ;) ...and as u said, many r just curious and only few r genuinely concerned!!

In this FB addicted world, we cant help it, rather not put any status at all and rest in peace!! :D

by the way Saniya...I rem' commenting on ur posts in Infyblogs wen I was with Infy...not sure if u rem' me!!! Seeing known names like urs in FB group reminded me of Infyblogs!! :)

Yet to read ur other posts...will do it one by one in leisure!!; June 6, 2012 at 10:11 PM

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Quotes Close to my heart .....

Speak the language which people understand, not the one you only know !
In life, i have learnt that however much your heart is in grief, the world won't stop for you,so put yourself together and move on !
Success doesn't come from success, it comes from failure,disaster and sometimes even catastrophe !
The heart suffers more not because of the "violence" of others but because of the "Silence" of dear ones !
What hurts more?Saying something and wishing you had not OR not saying something and wishing you had ?!?!!
It is not what you gather but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived
Fate determines who comes into our lives,But heart determines who gets to stay..
A drop of ink may make a million think.
You may forget with whom you laughed, but you will never forget with whom you wept
Some people have the power to change our lives - even after they're no longer a part of it.
When Forever is just a word, without meaning, the pain lasts nearly that long.
Memories sometimes behave in a crazy way!They leave you alone when you are in a crowd and when you are alone that stand along with you like a crowd.
In Life,God doesnt give u the people U want..Instead he gives u the people u NEED...To Teach U,To Hurt U,To Love U...To Make U exactly the way you should be !
Love me or Hate me but spare me of your indifference.
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Sometimes we must get hurt in order to grow...we must fail in order to know....Sometimes our vision clears only after our eyes are washed away with tears....
Men forget but never forgive,women forgive but never forget !!!!!!!
Simplicity carried to an extreme,becomes elegance!
The best thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother :D
Unexpressed feelings never die.....they rather kill you !
Never let your fears take your decisions.
People dont care about how much you know until they know how much you care..
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I can resist everything ....except temptation :D ;)
Tell me whom you love...and I will tell you who you are...
It is hard to let someone go who has touched your life....but it hurts more to let go someone who was never yours...and yet changed your life the most..
There is no pain so great as the memory of joy in present grief !!
No matter how happily a woman may be married,it always pleases her to discover that there is a really nice man who wishes she were not :D ;)
The one who cannot understand your silence ,wont even be able to understand your words...
The fruit that can fall without shaking.........Indeed is too mellow for me !
In the case of good books,the point is not how many of them you can get through,but rather how many can get through to you.
The major difference between a thing that might be wrong and a thing that cannot possibly go wrong is that when a thing that cannot possibly go wrong does it usually turns out to be impossible to get at or repair !
Your secret is your prisoner....once you reveal it,you become its slave !
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You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with.
Diamond is the only coal that did well under pressure :D
"The only abnormality is the incapacity to love."
Making a million friends is not a great thing.The great thing is to make a friend who will stand by you..When a million are against you.
You fooled me once shame on you ,you fooled me twice shame on me....
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The worst pain in life is when someone u KNOW turns into someone u KNEW !!
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Whenever a female is short of words,it is always "very funny" :D :D
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Life isnt about winning all the battles,it is about winning the ones that actually count.